Q&A Session

Q1. Does burning of the seeds start from 3rd stage of anger? Or start from 1st and 2nd stages? 

There are 4 stages of anger. Of course I think a lot about it this week. We went on a holiday vacation last week. We have to drive to the beach. Usually I get angry when I drive. I don’t often get angry with friends or other people. You are correct there are different stages of anger. First, you get a little bit off balance. 2nd then you get upset. 3rd level, ehhh, I hate you. 4th level you have ex-wife make you resent for 30 years. The more anger you have, the more seeds you burn right? So you think at level 3, I hate you so it burns more seeds. So what is the poison for the seed? Is to misunderstanding the seed. So what hurt the seeds, it is misunderstanding of the seed. So you have to check the 4 levels. Like in the kitchen, so which stage do we misunderstand our husband. So do I start to feel off balance when he yells at me. Do I misunderstand the two husband when I feel upset?

DO I misunderstand my husband when I yell back? Do I misunderstand my husband tomorrow when he says something to me tomorrow? You are misunderstanding your husband on all 4 stages. So it means the destruction on the seeds are all the same for 4 stages. There is a good news. So you can just think I create him, this immediately protect your life. If you have been learn for a long time as DCI, I hate you schizophonia. I hate you, (… this from me),,,,, I hate you,, (this come from me)….. you feel like a crazy self, but fight is the best seed. So first time you think oh it comes from me. But it wont stop your anger. Rather it will come back, fight, come back, fight, this is normal.

So Geshe, I feel get worse after attending L10. No, actually you gave improved.

So last week, when I was driving. There were people who drove near to me, I got annoyed. At the moment,………. ( the gist will add in later, didn’t hear it ) my anger goes down when I think why do I like that why I do like that. Oh dear, how did I plant the seed to have you….. this is the perfect way to disgrace DCI old partners.

Q2: From Ho Chih Min In the 1st law, there must be a cause and effect. In DCIG L10, we know anger will destroy our good seeds. So is there a conflict with the 4 laws? It really destroyed our seeds completely? 

Ans 2: A Great Question. This question has been asked for thousands of years. When I was studying for Geshe, we debate a lot. I have to say I’m with you. I don’t think it is possible to destroy the seeds. When they say they destroy your good seeds, I will say you r placing the seeds in the place where you cannot grow. My wife veronica and I have honeybees and flowers. Her birthday is in late June. So last year, I decided to buy for her seeds which the honeybees love. When I give her gifts, I like to give her something fun and original. I worked hard online which I went online to check which plants can grow in Arizona and which honeybees love.

This morning, we went to the porch and look at the plants. So in September it’s autumn now, the plants are growing.

There’s a new flower. Red Sage. My wife reminded me that it’s my gift to her. The bees were enjoying too. How about other seeds which I gifted you? Then she told me: I discovered something important about the seeds. If you don’t take them out of the bag, they don’t grow. What?! You didn’t take the seeds out of the bags? No, I m too busy. I didn’t have time to take them out. So when you are angry, you are putting your good seeds in a bag and it doesn’t grow. Perhaps, you destroy them at some level. Coz they will never grow.

In DCI courses, it is important to know that this damage is invisible. For example, you are helping someone. Spending time and coffee on them to do 4steps. However, you are destroying all these seeds. Then you start to think that this system doesn’t work.

If you have such wrong view, then it will delay the good seeds  ripen.

In ancient wisdom, the ignorant ones are better off than those who knows abit of the seeds system. If you know the seeds system but you doubt it, it is a serious bad seed.

Q3. What is the difference between anger and scolding? I saw a teacher angrily speaking to a student. But later the teacher said that he was not angry, he was only scolding. But in my opinion, his expression and tone are very angry. So, teacher, what is the difference between scolding and Anger? Will scolding from a teacher burn good seeds?

Q3. Ans: 4 different ways of a good teacher. A good teacher should be a good actor. Based on the learners’ need. Do different presentation. DCI teachers have to learn 4 different ways to teach1st …. Hi, (gently) hey, you did your coffee meditation? Oh, it is ok, we all have the time. Pad pad her back. She needs a peaceful face 2nd …… Eh, Noor, you and Xiao pin, have to go learn driving. You have not. Start next week go and do it, I give you money. A generous face3rd…… you have not started learning driving? I have told you!!! You all want to wait for a life time for your boy friends！！ You need to be stronger !!!

4th…. Hey, how’s your driving learning? I cant believe you!!,,,,,, yelling…. Why you….. ah ,,,,, (Crazily yelling)

If they are good teachers, even anger it is real. So as a teacher, you wont say my teacher is really angry. Then why you think your teacher is very angry. They look ugly, as they scold loud. So if he is a good teacher, he acts well. When you become a parent you understand. Out of love, you have to express out as an angry person. Actually, we cant tell if they are really angry or a good actor. To help somebody to do so, we misjudge them, then we plant a bad seed. I stay with my major master, every day, he showed me anger. He asked me, how many times I got angry? Frankly speaking every day. It is all acting. If I keep a smiling face, you wont learn. It is only acting, I ve never got angry with you, mike. When we see angry person, the key thing is safety. They want to help me. Are they buddha or devil, it doesn’t matter.  You inner self will be peaceful

Q4.

Steven  Malaysia

How do I use 4 priorities to let the anger seeds ripen faster? 4 priorities- how fast will the seeds open?

4 powers (4P) – 4 ways to stop the bad seeds. Let’s talk about 4 powers. 1st: just remember the pen. If you want to stop the bad seeds, for eg, when I was driving I was pissed. I showed a special hand sign. Then my wife asked why did I do that? I replied: oh sorry I planted a bad seed. I wasn’t home yet but already, I decided to do 4 P when I get home. My wife was texting coz her sis wasn’t feeling well.1st power: Remember the pen. That driver who did stupid things to me, it comes from me. He followed closely to you. You are over the speed limit. But he still tailgated you.

Perhaps he comes from you. Perhaps you forced the students too hard. Perhaps you should express thanks to them.

2nd power: I’m sorry I did that (intelligent regret)Because I did that action, I will see more drivers like that. I’m not hurting that driver but I’m creating more bad drivers next week. So I have to clear the seeds before next week. 3rd Power: the strongest one. I’m driving on the highway for the past 50years. How many times have I seen bad drivers? How many times did I lose my cool? GMR didn’t you learn L10? What’s wrong with you? Make a decision to stop. I’m very proud of how I insult the other drivers.

However, I wont give the special sign to other drivers.

Make a decision to stop and put a time limit. For one week, I will not do it again unless my wife is not in the car.4th power: I do something to make up (balance)I look for ways to help other drivers. On the same day, I saw something hanging from another car. The driver didn’t see. I followed him for a few streets. And finally we stopped at a traffic light. I told him something was hanging from his car. The driver was grateful.4th step is to do something opposite. So you can do 4P in your heart in your car too..

If you feel lonely while driving alone, you can do 4P.

Q5. As teacher said, anger destroys our body and mind, however, teachers have been practicing many years, why teachers still get old and leave us?

In ancient books, it talks about logics. We have to learn over 25 years on logics. Frankly speaking, I don’t like it for the 1st 2 years. I feel it is boring. I ask my teacher why should we learn logic. Teacher says it helps us to see things unseen. This is the 3rd eye. Like why this happen to me? How do I get success? When you do this, you are using logics. In the past, to learn logics,,,, are you in good mood today? You say yes. But a minute ago, how was it? Good mood too. Now you can think about it, it is a good mood from a minute ago. So if you got into sleep in my lesson it is ok, you are not the only one. SO what the baby has in mind? Maybe to drink something? Or other thing in mind?

Teacher reminded don’t forget, in every moment of your life, before that there was a thought too. Think about the baby the 1st thought he wanted to have milk. But before that there was another thought. Yes there was a thought before that. So when he had the thought, where he was? For sure, that moment he was different. In this life, the 1st thought the baby has, so if every thought has another thought before, so the baby must be at another place before that, and where the thought was. So this thought behind, there was another thought. SO how many times have you been thinking? Not the first time. So this could be you have lived many lives. But every life you get angry. Say, a thousand of life you had anger. SO NOW YOU ATTEND DCI course of L10, if you are driving at a speedy speed, can you stop immediately. Anger comes from habit. It is not easy to change.

But of you understand pen, it is as if a bomb at your anger. If you see the teacher is in anger, two possibilities. They are also learning to stop anger, not yet learn it. 2nd they act it out for a good mean. Same for getting old, same they are getting old as with misunderstanding, 2nd they are acting too. At this point I have to think, what the teacher is teaching. Maybe the tea4ching is perfect but the techer is not. But if the teacher is very sincere, and honest. They are trying their best spend their time to others, helping the poor to build house, I think they can teach us we can improve even if they are not perfect.

Q6. Why does my wealth come and go? 

Answer: that’s a good qn. First it seems like I started DCI and my money goes up. Then it declines. Then it rises. This is not a problem with the 4 steps. This is your own seeds interrupting your wealth. When you start the 4steps, your finance will improve. Then your new seeds will be stronger and stronger. Then your old seeds open again and again. Then GMR how do I ensure it keeps going up. Then I will be honest with you. I don’t think it is possible to stop the old seeds. When the problems come, use the 4steps. If you don’t quit the 4 steps, your finance will go up but it won’t be smooth. It doesn’t keep going up. It is with interruptions. But it will go higher. I have done 4 steps for 50years. In the beginning, it is very shaky but it is going up. After some 2-3years, it starts to get steadier. Let me tell you something beautiful: If you don’t give up and do 4 steps, you will reach a special place. TEASURE OF THE SKY.

When you need something, you just have to take it from the sky. I have this experience. I don’t need more money. And when I need money, it comes. I’m Not exaggerating. I’m not trying to sell you something. I want you to be happy. If you keep using 4steps and helping others, you can have all the money you want all the time. Beautiful house, beautiful family. 

When you get up in the morning, you can say to yourself: I don’t know if today is a good or bad day, but I pray that today I can meet someone to help.

This is a beautiful way to wake up.

I HOPE TODAY I CAN MEET SOMEONE WHO NEEDS MY HELP.

Don’t worry about your finance.

When you wake up, make a small prayer.

I HOPE TODAY I CAN MEET SOMEONE WHO NEEDS MY HELP.

Q&A Session (By GMR, T. Sharon, T. Wang Tian)

Q1: How can I resolve my dissatisfaction, unhappiness, and anger?

Sharon Ans: This is a clever question. For e.g. 2 husbands in the kitchen, when the husband yelled at her, she shouldn’t yell back. To be smart, to go to toilet, to look at the mirror, you are stupid. It looks like she can only be mad at herself. We going to resolve this question to complete this level. 1st of all, the good news is question coming from our seeds then the solution also comes from our seeds. Normally, we focus on the question rather than what we want.

If you can reverse the question, then u know what seeds to plant. If you want satisfaction about yourself, you need to give to others first. Also check our intention, why do you want. When I on the yoga video, I no need to look at the video again rather check how big my muscle has grown. So it is the intention to bring everyone to do yoga. Then I wont feel bad how my muscles look. So set your intention before you pursue your intention. Regardless how the action result, you will feel good much better at end of it. Because you set an intention to serve.

Wang Tian Ans: Think back to the 2 husbands in the kitchen, think about your current situation. There will be always 2 of yourselves. One “you” doesn’t come from your own seeds; another one “you” is from your previous seed planted. Therefore there are 2 “you”. Which one you are going to angry with? You are angry with the second “you”. The truth is, you are the “you” that planted previously, instead of you angry with yourself now, why not just plant some new good seeds, so that you won’t be angry or dissatisfied with yourself in future.

GMR Ans: What am I going to do while listening to you. I was thinking about a middleman. This is an important idea in ancient wisdom. Don’t go too far this or that way. I also get upset about myself sometimes. If I have a bad habit, I will say oh my god, why I did. Then you feel bad about yourself, feel depressed, then that is not middle way it is too far. Recently, we are translation some ancient books, it talks about if you get too angry with yourself, how to fix it. Because this will hurt your meditation. So it says close your eyes and think how lucky you are. Supposed to be those who really understand pen will be successfully. 80 million people, maybe 1 out of 7000 heard about pen. You heard about pen, so you are a special person so you shouldn’t get really get angry about yourself. On the other side, people don’t hate themselves, they love themselves. I heard the rock and roll song, I feel like kissing myself. Think about it, I think middle way ii better.

I am not perfect but If I am depressed it does not help to solve problem. Just admit, yes, I make mistake. But not hide the mistake, that’s stupid. A warrior should be with a smile.

Q2. I don’t know why I am always angry with my loved ones. While with others, I am comfortable with them. What should I do with these seeds? 

Wang Tian: My Best anger helper is my partner. I’m grateful to him, he has helped me a lot. He also helped me to practice my anger management and patience. I think especially with our loved ones, since they are so close to our hearts. We see them as part of me, we have these perceptions that they are part of me. You feel that they are part of your body; however, they are individuals. 

Sometimes their views differ. Eg. You want them to do dishes but they prefer to do something else. You may be nice to them initially. But an hour later, the dishes are still in the sink. And you lose your cool. 

We feel close to our loved ones. Ad that’s why we think anger is a way to control others. Which is illogical. If we are angry, we are hurting all our good seeds. And those good seed which could ripen up, we could have seen our partner doing things for us. Now with anger, we frozen the good seeds. Think about what seeds we can plant to see a partner helping us with dishes.  

T Sharon Fan: Our partner helps us. From patience comes with beauty. I tend to take my loved ones for granted because I know they forgive me easily. By doing this, I forget about the pen. If I’m angry towards them, I’m planting angry seeds and not respecting them. Every relationship is based on seeds. There will be a day for sure the seeds run out and I can’t take them for granted.  

Just like a seed, after the tree grows out, it dies. This reminds me of my seeds.

I want my loved ones and myself be happy. Ill direct my mind to create better relationships among us.

GMR: Regarding Wang tian’s ,the  2 husbands story in the kitchen is famous. GMR is writing the 2 husbands sutra now. Why call it 2 husbands in the kitchen sutra? Why not 2 bosses in the kitchen? If you compare, the husband is more irritating than the boss. When is the last time you heard about a boss dismissing an employee? But you never hear about mother dismissing the son example. When we are upset, you will not display it to your boss. When your boss yells at you, you replied “that’s fine”. However when your partner yells at you and you know your partner can’t dismiss you, you can easily show your anger. When you love somebody more, the more easily you can show your anger. A little love can make you blind. Spanish book- a story of an old man’s adventure First page: El Amor Es Ciego (Love is blind) 

When we feel a lot of love for somebody, our emotions are strong till we forget the pen. When we feel upset about them, it will be difficult to remember it came from something I did before. After years of study, remember the pen method. Your happiness will be perfect when you keep remembering the pen.  

My own relationship with my family, after many years of trying, it is beautiful now. PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT. 

Q3. 2 years ago my daughter passed away in an accident in school. She was only in her teens. I miss her so much, I am even overpowered by regret and develop resentment toward the rest of the family. If anger is meaningless to our life, then what about bearing someone in mind? 

Ans by Sharon Fan: My 2 family members pass away within half a way. One of them past away due to a small in house accident. That was my grandma , she didn’t even wait for me to arrive to see her for the last time in the hospital. The other one die of terminal illness. So, I understand how devastating it is to lose a family. As a mother, I am sure it must be harder for you. So, even though I didn’t know about the diamond cutter last time, but because I love my family so much, I don’t want to see their passing as only sadness.  That time, I try to help the sick, the poor and care more for them, so I can attach some positive meanings for losing my family.

Very soon after that, I heard the pen for the very first time, which is very interesting as I have the DC book at my shelf for years.  It is only when I lose my family I started to care for the sick. I asked myself what I want. “I want my family to be healthy together”. Now, my family has grown closer because of the lost that we had, it created space for me to gain something more. As for keeping someone gone in mind means anything ? In this case, your daughter is not really gone as your seed is still producing her in your mind. So, keep planting seeds, one day you will see it projecting and different view in your mind. Maybe one day, you will perceive it as a healthy disaster, something meaningful.

Ans by Wang Tian: I think especially for this year and last year, many of us experience this situation. So, many of us are feeling this question, It is not only me having this sorrow in my heart. If you look around, many of us have it. Then, what can we do to support each other? Just like the Chinese character, of the human. You rely on each other. So, that reminds me if we feel this kind of sadness in our heart, maybe we can start to open up to see there are other people around us, and we can start to support each other. So, please give it a go. I hope this can help you.

Ans. by GMR About a month ago, the old lady that I helped for over 30 years, she past away. She was very healthy at 95 but suddenly in two weeks, she past away. I admit that some part of me feel angry and I go more sensitive and irritable towards other people. Then I checked myself, I have pretty good “She Shin” after 30 years.  “GMR why you feel upset ?” Then I checked, I realized it is because of my own fear. I am also afraid. Wow, how if this happen to more people or to me ? Suddenly an idea came to me. In DCI we spend a lot of times to understand seeds. We found out that everything comes from seeds. Then I start to think about, does death comes from seed? I understand yes, that is also comes from seed. If something comes from seeds, you can change it. So, all my upset and anger changed to hope. If pen comes from seeds, death also comes from seeds.

Seeds system can make me wealthy, nice house. DCI is a business organization. We don’t talk about death like that but actually that DCI seeds system can be used for big thing as well. So, the last months I spent the time thinking how to change those seeds and my anger went away and replaced with a very deep hope. We can change this big problem for all humanity.

Q4. Dear Geshe la, may I know what seed I can plant to control my weight be more stable, instead of fluctuating? 

T. Wang Tian: This a question we all face. They say you either get covid, or you have a covid belly. I think this also tie back to level10. Remember what T. Sharon share with us? If we can practice patience, you become more beautiful. I think most of us when we try to lose weight. We just want to look better. Maybe we could be with our anger helper, do not get angry and plant more beautiful seeds.

T. Sharon: I don’t have anything to say as I have to opposite goal. I want my weight to change for a long time. I want to change my weight. Regardless how I eat, how busy I am it doesn’t change. Regardless how much we weight, behind is the beauty. May be we can find beauty in people around us. Just appreciate the way they are. Then we plant a seed to see ourselves beautiful.

GMR Hong Kong was the first place I went to work in Asia when I was in diamond biz. So I was very grateful to Hong Kong people to introduce me to China people. Benjamin Franklin.

 He is a famous philosopher. He says if you have a problem, find a teacher who has the problem. The ship captain who hit the rock with the ship, he knows where is the danger. Gesha also has this problem, to control my weight. Recently, I tell you what I am doing. I think it helps a little bit. I didn’t use seed system. I bought some exercise equipment. American people has this superstition, if you keep this equipment at home, your weight will drop. So I try this first. I get more and more equipment in my home. Then my wife says maybe you should use equipment. That’s something good about DCI partner, he or she will tell you how stupid you are. So I start to use the equipment. Still I don’t lose weight. One day, I wake up and think ah, may be I should use 4 steps. SO I bring all these equipment to Sendona College, I invite all these colleague and friends to come, and do exercise together. We help each other to lose weight. Help other people who have same problem, who want lose weight or gain weight.

Q5. Can you elaborate how leadership comes from enjoying our work? sometimes in reality we are given expanded roles which I do not like and cannot refuse. So does it mean we cannot be a leader in such situation?

Sharon Ans: Why enjoying your work can be seen as a leader? Leader needs followers. So people attract followers by their beauty. Like those celebrities. If they lose their beauty, they lose their followers. Some people attract followers through their power. But again, if they lose power, they lose their followers.

When people see you having fun especially in your work, which many struggle with, of course they will want to know how you do it. So as long as you are enjoying your work, you are planting seeds of a leader. For myself, I always consider myself among the yogis like a mummy (Egyptian). I can’t do a lot of poses but I love yoga so much. Even if I didn’t look to be a yoga. That’s an example how enjoying your work plant the seed. How do we have enough time to do what we like with our busy schedules? In L11, we talk about time mgmt. in inner conversations. LT 6- if we want to have time to pursue our dreams, we should get to encourage others. This reminds us of what T Anton taught in LT11 in L10.If we view our job as a plant seed opportunity, then we can change our mentality and enjoy the work even more. Then we will be ale to plant seeds as a leader.  

T. Wang Tian Ans: From my observation, I know someone who has enjoyed his work so much. He is our best role model. Let’s GMR to share with us.

GMR: When I was in high school, one of the teacher’s advice was: Every morning when you wake up, eat a small very ugly frog. Then you will realise the whole day will be nice! So, what does it mean? I have a friend, Seiji Aroi and his wife , Noor. Their son is my grandson. They are translating a new book which is 1000yo. It talks about peacock warrior. Why does peacock have beautiful feathers? Because in ancient time, peacock ate poison. Which gave it the beautiful colours.  

When you are the boss/ leader, how can you be a good leader? When there’s a problems/situation, the leader will come to help. The leader doesn’t avoid. The leader goes to the difficult issues first. Like the peacock who eats the poison, the person who eats the ugly frog in the morning. 

If a leader is relaxed & happy due to the leader going to the difficult issues first, others will follow this leader. Try to help is the key to leadership. When others see you happy and relaxed, you will have followers.

Q2: “I know evading Tax is a super bad seeds, but I have lost some of my receipt, when I use replacement receipts (that also belongs to me) to file my tax and I do share the income with my mom, I am supposed to do documentations for it to prove that I share income with someone else. but without documentation I am still paying more tax and I am happy.  I have people around me that was trying to cut some tax , they did not pay anyone before ,but I advice them never to do it, is a very bad seeds to cut tax by doing fake documentation saying that he has hired someone to work. He took my advice and He did not prepare the fake documentation and He happily paid almost RM60 000 of tax to the government. What about receipt replacement is that still a bad seed?”

T.Dawn Ans: I myself don’t use receipts to pay tax. Some insurance company, just accept original receipt to claim from another company. SO if you cannot have original, so you wont use it to claim from another company. How to not plant bad seeds? What is your intention in the process? The tax I am doing, the receipt I use are they legal? Next is truthful seeds. If I use another way, Am deceiptful? Am I paying less? If I pay truthfully, the figure is correct then I don’t plant bad seeds.

Q3: I have a question on the meditation yesterday.  If we are constantly upset with ourselves thus unable to imagine the person whom we will be angry with and what this person will say, what is the alternative to do this meditation?

First ask yourself a crucial question. Why are you frustrated? Story of 3 children. Sometimes when he asked his youngest daughter, he doesn’t get reply from her. This let teacher felt she doesn’t respect him. Then teacher will do meditation to take away this feeling. Ask yourself why you need to do things perfectly? is it for praise?So you have to start asking yourself honestly. Then you will be able to plant seeds of praising others. You can do meditation for your future self. You can take away the future frustrated self. Even if your works is not perfect, people will still praise you..

Q4: Teacher, good seeds will be burnt when angry, so how do we know which seeds it will be burnt? If we don’t know which seed we burnt, if we take the seed out and use it, will it be useless?

T.Jenny Ans: In Karmic Hacker, we are actually will burn our good seeds. It means freeze our good seeds. We don’t know. Once the good seeds frozen, actually a lot of seeds, millions of seeds, frozen many many seeds. This reminds ourselves don’t allow us cannot control ourselves, so we must have a small mind to control ourselves. So, we don’t know what is frozen. For example, you accompanied old folks, when you are coming back, you are angry, the seeds you planted when accompany the old folks are frozen, then when you want to find a partner, these seeds are frozen.

Q5: I understand that the DCI system teaches us to be truthful and good to people around us, plant good seeds.  But this may send message to others that we are nice and easy to others and may attract abuse by others and misused our kindness.  Is there any nice way for us to say NO to others yet not planting bad seed, like not-helpful seed?

I believe many has these questions. How do we self-preserve ourselves and not being make used by others when we are planting seeds. In Asia culture, a lot of us likes bargaining. If you do not bargain, then you are foolish. In the past, I will feel I will lose out if I don’t bargain. If you know of karmic law, what results you want, you have to plant the seeds. You have to think of the 4 powers. Then can you reject people? It depends on your intentions. Is it the best way to help? So we have to take care of ourselves so we can help more people.

Q6: In the process of learning, we all need to practice before we can understand what the teacher teaches. So in this process, how do we wisely discern whether I am doing the right thing? Because I will see myself. When I am desperate for a goal, I will always do it and do my homework very hard. Because the teacher said that I must use such tools to achieve it, I will follow blindly, and the people around me will also tell me to just follow the teacher’s method, and you will for sure achieve your goal. Here I want to ask, is it possible to follow blindly? Or do I need to reflect, think, and understand how this tool helps me, before I decide whether to use it?

Dawn Ans: When I started to learn I have the same thought. I wanted wealth. SO at the beginning, I was generous, I gave gave gave. Last time I was stingy. After some time, then I realized, how come my seeds not flower yet. Then I understand your mouth is my mouth, after understanding the tools, I understand the intention behind, to think about others, happiness of others. Last time, I count how many seeds I have planted. Rather I have to focus on how much I want to help. Like the refugees to have stable jobs, they don’t have to worry, then I am happy I help. Then When pandemic, I don’t have to worry about my income. As I learn from one level to another, then I work on this direction, work on intention about others, are they happy, what they want. Then I start to plant correctly. So in pandemic I am not affected in my wealth. Like T Shannon said, we have think, clear thinking , the logics in it, to learn with your friends around to understand deeper.

So with understanding, we can plant more powerful seeds to reach our goal.

Q7. We know there are different levels of anger. And with time gap as well. My question is: when we do 4 powers, do we just do once? Or we do repeated 4Powers on severe cases? 

T Sunny Ans: When my wife is busy, she requires my help. However I do not wish to help so I rejected her. Then I started to think, if I do not help her, I will face the issue of people not helping me too next time.

 Another example: I used to love live seafood, especially crabs and kill it myself. so I do 4 Powers a FEW TIMES on the same issues. So you have to assess your feelings when you face the issues. Depends on the severity of the incident.

Q8: Recently I discovered that my off-balance is due to this phenomenon, and I can’t find my beloved things for a while. This feeling is not very good. Will scare myself. How can I deal with this feeling, teacher?

Jenny Ans: First you notice that your off balance you cant find things you love. If you have this feeling of loss this thing love. So we can help others to have what they want. So because of others’ forgetfulness, I will get angry. So I remind them, like car keys, handphone. SO my son cant them, I will be very anxious too. So I can remind them about their valuables, that they love. So this thing will not happen frequently. So you have this feeling don’t want to lose things, get frustration, then when you start to plant this seed. You won’t have this worries then

Q&A Session (T. Jenny, T. Sunny, T. Sharon)

Q1. Can you elaborate more on the differences or distinction of tool no. 4 and 5? Thank you!

Ans. If we truly use our logic We use this alarm system we will watch our mind. We can stop this instantly. So from stage 1 to stage 4. So 1st Life trool4 we must have this clear mind. So we have to be aware of the issue. We need to have the awareness, even if I get angry now, I start to get off balance. I will burn all the good seeds. This is to understand at intellectual level. So no point to get angry.Why no point get upset? I take it as trouble maker, it is coming from me. So this person is here to help me to ripen the bad seeds first. So with this change, then you will change from anger to gratitude. Luckily this person make it ripen first else I wont know how it will ripen. So this will make you having gratitude.

Q2. Question from G2 Balwinna What do i do when I see others around me getting upset and arguing, when I’m not getting involved? Are these my bad seeds too? Which lifetool to use? We did mentioned that after planting seed , we will be able to see our environment is coming from me. When our seeds ripen, it will come back to us. So, when we see people around us is fighting and not in harmony, that is coming me. First, we must acknowledge that, that is coming from me and remind ourselves to plant more harmony seeds. We need to have compassion towards them. We will be affected by them directly as it will disturb our crystal lake, so, avoid from getting upset about it. What lifetool can we use ? depends on individually. For me, I like to use the hackers lifetool more. It depends which lifetool you want to use.

Q3. When something uncomfortable happened, We throw anger to others. We planted the bad seed. This is easy to understand. Another way, is hide at a corner feeling down depressed. Will this plant some seeds? How in L10 to deal with this silent negativity？

For me, I do have such situation. When someone criticize us or say something make us uncomfortable. Of course the way to express anger is different. After knowing from this L10, we don’t do that to others but ourselves. It means you still have the anger, it is harmful to us. Remember the pic of a wushu lady with a sword. Where do we have to kill it? The weakest point. Upset is also a way of feeding our anger seed. Remember 2 husbands in the kitchen. Remember there is no one outside who hurt us. It must be in the past that i ve said something to hurt someone. So I send out this dagger, this dagger comes back to me. So I must not feed this seed. Remember to use 4 steps for others, so you will not feel hurt and they will not border you.

Q4:  He quiet down the anger keeps disturbing him. How can we don’t deal with this anymore. How to make a wise choice? When we have emotion, upset, not happy. Should we endure, not to respond? Or to express out discomfort? 

However, these 2 ways will hurt ourselves. The 3rd way is making you uncomfortable. For e.g., I see my child. So when is my daughter going to wash the pet house? She will tell me when she want to wash it. When time has passed but she still didn’t wash it. And this keeps happening. Of course I get angry. Then I must reflect, why she did not keep her promise? Therefore I change my seed to keep my own promise, then yesterday I see she wash her pet house.